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The Impact of Major Life Events on Debt

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Major life events such as divorce and moving can significantly alter an individual’s financial landscape. These transitions, often filled with emotional and logistical challenges, also carry substantial financial burdens. Understanding how such events contribute to increasing debt is crucial for those looking to mitigate financial strain during these times.

Divorce and Financial Turmoil

Divorce often leads to a re-evaluation of financial responsibilities and assets, complicating what was once a joint economic effort. It’s common for one or both parties to incur debt as legal fees accumulate and shared assets are divided. According to BlueNotary, around 2.9 divorces occur every 1,000 people a year, highlighting the commonality of this issue.

The financial strain of divorce doesn’t end with the settlement; rather, it often marks the beginning of rebuilding individual credit histories. Many face challenges such as acquiring new housing or refinancing existing loans due to altered financial standings. As these responsibilities pile up, the risk of accruing further debt becomes eminent.

This period can be particularly daunting economically and emotionally, leading some to seek financial counseling. Restructuring a household budget based on a single income rather than a shared one is crucial. Addressing these realities early on can help mitigate the risk of insurmountable debt.

Costly Undertakings of Moving

Moving is another event commonly linked to increased debt, especially when individuals relocate due to job changes or family reasons. Between securing a new property and the costs of transportation and logistics, expenses can quickly escalate. According to Forbes, 28.2 million Americans moved in 2022, underscoring the vast number of people affected by these financial obligations.

New homeowners often encounter unexpected costs such as renovations or higher utility bills, which add to the financial burden. Those moving to rental properties face security deposits and potential changes in monthly expenses, contributing to financial stress. Such shifts can prompt individuals to rely on credit, potentially leading to more debt.

The financial implications of moving are not just limited to the move itself but extend into the adjustment period thereafter. It becomes important to proactively budget for post-move expenses to curtail the chance of spiraling into debt. Planning and financial literacy can play a critical role in averting overwhelming expenses.

Bankruptcy as a Consequence

The culmination of challenges presented by major life events can result in bankruptcy, a significant marker of financial distress. Legal and administrative fees associated with bankruptcy can deep root individuals into further debt. The Administrative Office of the U.S. Courts recorded 418,724 bankruptcy filings between June 2022 and June 2023, indicating a tangible consequence of economic hardships.

While bankruptcy can offer a new beginning, it also comes with long-term impacts on creditworthiness and financial opportunities. The process often serves as a wake-up call to many, catalyzing efforts in financial planning and debt management. Understanding the steps leading to bankruptcy helps individuals take corrective action sooner rather than later.

Debt incurred from such life events underlines the importance of financial resilience. Individuals may seek debt consolidation or restructuring to navigate this turbulent time. Professional guidance and strategic planning can enhance one’s ability to overcome these financial hurdles.

In conclusion, the financial implications of major life changes like divorce and moving can be profound and far-reaching. Whether it’s the division of shared assets in a divorce or unexpected expenses incurred from moving, these events often lead to an accumulation of debt. Awareness, proactive planning, and financial counseling are key strategies to manage these transitions effectively and mitigate the risk of irreversible financial damage.

Teaching Teens to Budget

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I was talking with a couple friends recently about back-to-school shopping. Our kids are teenagers now, and care more about brand names and labels than they used to in the past. The problem, of course, is the price tags on some of these “name brand” items can be astronomical and impractical for most budgets.

One friend said how she handles these requests is by setting a limit of what she’ll provide for a given item (e.g., say $50 for a pair of shoes), and if her teen wants something that goes above the limit,  they have to pay for the difference out of their own savings. Makes them look twice at those $150 Nikes and really think about how many babysitting hours it would take to pay the difference to consider whether the cost is worth it.

I liked that idea – setting a reasonable limit for an item and telling my teens they can choose to purchase a more expensive version if they want to be responsible for paying the difference.

Then another friend chimed in with a unique approach. 

She said starting her senior year of high school, her Dad gave her a biweekly “paycheck” for her to budget for all of her needs and wants. Prior to starting this, her Dad had calculated all the costs associated with raising his daughter. This includes:

  • Apparel
  • Sports registration fees
  • Car insurance and gasoline
  • Gifts for friend’s birthdays
  • Just-for-fun treats (e.g., ice cream, Starbucks, boba)
  • School events and extracurriculars (e.g., school dances, attire, school supplies, marching band, etc.)
  • phone bill
  • Beauty supplies (haircare, makeup, etc.)
  • Entertainment and fun (movies, mall, dinner with friends, etc.)

Her dad did the math to figure out the average spent per month and gave a biweekly paycheck so she could start to learn about budgeting before she left the house. There were some things her parents still covered themselves (e.g., she had a bad sports injury that year and had to have surgery – obviously her parents covered all medical expenses). They also continued to still give her gifts for Christmas and her birthday outside of this budget.

In their case, my friend’s dad continued this practice through her college years. He gave her a set amount and that was it. If she ran out of money before payday, she had to figure it out. And if she budgeted and saved wisely, she’d have extra funds she could use for entertainment or fun.

I love this idea! While I think my newly-13 year olds are a bit young to be given that level of responsibility, I’d like to keep this tucked in the back of my mind for the future. What a great gift to be able to provide – teaching your child financial independence before they really go out on their own. 

For my friend, she was a real proponent of starting while the teen is still living at home. That way if they run out of money, they still have access to food and they’re not going to end up in the dark (housing and utilities are covered by the parents). It’s a low-stakes risk with the potential of high rewards when your child learns how to weigh decisions about costs, and how to stick to a budget.

Right now, I give my girls a small monthly allowance ($25/each) and I make them use their own money if they want something special that I’m not planning to buy. An example is Starbucks (very popular with the teens in this area right now). Occasionally we’ll drive through a Starbucks and I offer to buy us all something. But if the girls want to take a special trip to Starbucks that I wasn’t planning to do, then they’ll have to use their own money to buy themselves a treat. This works great for now. 

That said, I do like BOTH of my friends’ approaches to budgeting with kids. I plan to implement my first friend’s approach, where her teen pays the difference in price for an item that is more costly than she agrees to spend. And maybe in a few years I may adopt an approach similar to my second friend, whose dad paid out a biweekly “paycheck” so she could learn to budget more broadly.

 

What do/did you do with your teens? Or what advice would you offer to help teach teens budgeting basics in an age-appropriate way?