Blogging Away Debt Our Journeys to a Debt-Free Life

by Hope

It’s funny. I’ve been preaching to my teams at work for years about slowing down and being more deliberate in your actions. Focus on what you are doing and do it right, the first time. It truly does make a difference especially when you’ve got a constant flow of work to do and inputs coming at you.

But I have failed to take my own advice especially when it comes to my finances.

New Job Excitement

When I got my new contract and regular income again, I just dove in. And it was great, I began paying things left and right. It was so refreshing to not be constantly stressed and borrowing from Peter to pay Paul.

Alas, that excitement is not sustainable. And when you rush and don’t focus, you make mistakes or miss things.

Now, I’m focused. I’m slowing down. And I am determined to make more thoughtful decisions, set more realistic goals. So I’ve reordered my debt payoff. I’ve made sure it’s obtainable. And rebalanced my budget to include regular and substantial savings, more taxes to pay, and giving myself a bit more buffer in my month because I was getting into trouble at the end of the month when something unexpected popped up.

July Debt Numbers

Go Faster

I’ve seen the comments indicating that I could go faster since I could roll the now completed debt payments into other debts and you are right. However, a couple of things…

1. I am saving and investing more every month now. All my part time W2 income goes into savings. And I’ve added 10% automatic savings deposits from my large and steady part time contract gig. And I’ve increased my investing from $35 per week to $70 per week. (See Stash post.) Half of that weekly investment is going into a ROTH IRA that’s auto-invested.
2. My income has increased thus my taxes have increased and I’m being overly cautious on that front. When I started this contract job, I was make $6K per month, now it’s up to $8K per month. And we are in talks for another substantial increase by the end of Q3. Taxes are substantial. I’m currently putting aside and paying almost $2,500 per month towards self employment taxes, social security, Medicare, state and federal taxes. And with the anticipation that my income will greatly increase, I want to be very cautious of not getting behind and would prefer to have a buffer.
3. (added initial published) We are planning to go to Texas for Thanksgiving. The girls and I are driving. Therefore, have a budget line for that. That is the main reason there is no “payoff” in November.

I believe this plan is achievable even with any bumps in the road over the next 6 or so months.

One Note

I did remove Gymnast’ car from my overall debt total. I realize that it’s still legally mine. But we are quickly approaching a year that he has been paying it. Well, 9 months maybe. And he’s really targeting trying to pay it off quickly. And making wise choices to that end. Every once in a while, he laments the burden of the debt, but with consistent feedback that the car is his to sell should he want to get out from under the debt, he always reverts and talks about how much he loves his car. Thankfully, his cost of living with my sister is quite low so he’s able to focus on it. (He does pay her rent, etc.) And is covering all his own other expenses as well. I’m so proud of him.

Hope

Hope is a resourceful and solutions-driven business manager who has spent nearly two decades helping clients streamline their operations and grow their businesses through project management, digital marketing, and tech expertise. Recently transitioning from her role as a single mom of five foster/adoptive children to an empty nester, Hope is navigating the emotional and practical challenges of redefining her life while maintaining her determination to regain financial control and eliminate debt.

Living in a cozy small town in northeast Georgia with her three dogs, Hope cherishes the serenity of the mountains over the bustle of the beach. Though her kids are now finding their footing in the world—pursuing education, careers, and independence—she remains deeply committed to supporting them in this next chapter, even as she faces the bittersweet tug of letting go.

Since joining the Blogging Away Debt community in 2015, Hope has candidly shared her journey of financial ups and downs. Now, with a renewed focus and a clear path ahead, she’s ready to tackle her finances with the same passion and perseverance that she’s brought to her life and career. Through her writing, she continues to inspire others to confront their own financial challenges and strive for a brighter future.