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No Spend January

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Kicking off 2025 with a no spend month. This will be my first no spend month since being an empty nester. Evidently, I did a no spend January back in 2019. (See here: No Spend January – 2019 and Update on No Spend January – 2019.)

I’ve been fascinated by a slew of TikTok videos touting a no spend 2025…a year. It looks like a lot of people are struggling with finances and subsequently doing their best to button down and make better decisions. Most all have identified their own rules. And their own rewards for sticking to it. I love this on so many levels.

But I know better than to bite off more than I can chew. So I am sticking with my No Spend Month of January for now.

The Rules

Because of my “forecast” method, I know my required spend for the month.

Utilities$280
Mortgage (February)$1,015
Cell Phone$90
Car Insurance$480
Credit Cards (min pymts)$276
Groceries (fresh veggies & fruits)$40
Total$2,181

My goal is no deviation from this forecast for this month. No extra spending money, no eating out, and no entertainment.

Mortgage

My mortgage for January is already paid. I’ve been paying a month ahead and every month. So while I technically don’t have a mortgage payment due this month, I do want to maintain my 30 days ahead on this payment.

Groceries

I’ve given myself $10 per week for fresh veggies and fruits if needed. But I’m hoping I don’t need it. I have meal planned for the month. And don’t anticipate much activity that would require me to deviate from my plan. I also put an extra $40 for dog food should it be needed.

A Quiet but Exciting Month

Gymnast will visit Georgia this month. He will be spending a week here. And the #1 goal is to get the kids’ car titles (Gymnast and Princess) transferred to them. (This visit is only reason I anticipate needing gas; otherwise, I am not sure I would leave the house.) As I mentioned last month, he has paid off his car loan in its entirety. He now owns his car free and clear. I am so proud of him.

 

 

Health + Dental Insurance Starts Tomorrow

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Happy New Years Eve, BAD Community!

Going into 2025 with a lot of insecurity as far as work goes. On December 19th, my full time client once again changed his mind as far as the full time role goes. And frankly, the roller coaster of his commitment and backing off has worn me out. He’s offered me some part time work for January. But I’m just not sure I trust him to pay me at this point.

However, I did secure health and dental insurance for myself and my younger two children – Beauty Princess and Gymnast. Woot, woot! I appreciate everyone’s input, specifically the link to the Georgia Access site.

Monthly cost: $84 for now with my variable income being cut so drastically.

Coverage starts tomorrow. And I will be working on finding providers and setting up preventative care appointments.

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I wrote last summer about habit stacking. With some down time going into the new year, I am planning to pick back up my self work – a new counselor, a new calendar to keep me on track, and the open-ness to accept whatever comes for me in the new year.

It’s taken me a long time to realize that I cannot plan for “work” – it comes and goes, both as a contractor and employee, but I can plan for the in-between, the improvement of myself, and how I handle the challenges.

My self worth should not, cannot, and will not be tied to my work. My identity can no longer be wrapped up in being a mom now that my kids are grown and on their own.

2025 is going to be the year of reinvention for me. Time to shed the old and embrace the new…whatever that might be.

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